Your indicator.....

Everything that manifests in your life or anybody else's life that
you are observing, is nothing more than an indication of your
vibrational frequency.  It is an INDICATOR.  Indicators are
manifestations of what you have been doing vibrationally. Period.
So if wonderful things are happening, you are receiving
indications of the vibrations you have been sending out. If things
have been out of control in your life, then you've got negative
manifestations of what you have been offering vibrationally.

Indicators are just that - indicators.  You don't want to kill the
messenger. You don't go to the gas station when the gas gauge is on
empty and lay your head on the steering wheel in utter despair and
say, "Oh look at what I have done. The gas gauge is on empty but I
kept driving. My life is a mess". The gas gauge is an indicator and
you know you have to do something about it.  You don't paste a
happy face sticker over the gas gauge because it is depressing to
see you are on empty.  And you don't usually wait until you are
completely out of gas and standing on the side of the road. You
fill it up don't you?

That's what we are talking about here. We are talking about your
indicator that lets you know what your habit of thought has been.
And if you have been feeling pretty crummy lately then it is time
for a fill up. If things are not going the way you want them to -
it's time to change your thoughts about it.  It's time to offer
some more deliberate thought. It's time to seek a better attitude.
It's time to stop blaming yourself and others, stop feeling sorry
for yourself and become more positive, even in the smallest way.
Don't blame your "indicator". Instead, train your mind to look for
the good things in your life and you will find them.

Today will bring you a new awareness, a lesson or a manifestation
that you are making progress 

Have you ever considered.

If you feel stuck in any area of your life it could very well be

due to a lack of forgiveness. Perhaps you are having trouble

forgiving someone else or yourself. It doesn't matter. Holding on

to past memories or "stories" is guaranteed to tie up your energy

and block your ability to attract what you want.

I struggled with forgiveness for many years because I believed that

if I forgave someone they would not receive the "just punishment"

they deserved for what they had done to me. But as I looked at that

belief I realised it was just that, a belief. In fact, it was just

an assumption and an illusion.

What I learned is that the universe will always seek balance and it

will deal with that person or situation in the appropriate way,

even if it that means letting them off the hook.  The outcome in

their life has nothing to do with the outcome in my life unless I

choose to keep myself tied to it.

If you think about it, when you choose to forgive someone, it is

nothing more than an ego trip. When you say "I forgive you",

what you are really saying is you have some sort of hold over them.

By saying "I forgive you", you decree that you are pronouncing

them "free" of your resentment. That isn't forgiveness. That's an

ego trip.

There is really nothing to forgive.  What we call forgiveness is

simply letting go. It is not placing judgment on other people or

yourself.  When you are truly conscious you realize that nothing

"bad" or "wrong" happened. You may judge it as "bad" or "wrong",

but from the view of ALL THAT IS what occurred is simply what

occurred. It's over. It's done. It's history.

Because we believe something "bad" happened, we still think of

ourselves as being victimised no matter how much we try to forgive.

So we are caught up between two conflicting energies. One is to

condemn and blame and the other is to forgive. This is why we

struggle with forgiveness.

However, when we are truly conscious we realize nothing "bad",

"negative" or "evil" happened at all. In fact, what happened didn't

happen TO you but FOR you. It happened to help you to awaken and

grow. It was part of your life lesson to bring you to where you are

right now and to allow you to let go of your "story" of

victimisation.

So if you are stuck in any area of your life, take a look at your

unwillingness to forgive yourself or others and just let it go!

Realize there is nothing to forgive. You just have to release it

and move on.

Today will bring you a new awareness, a lesson or a manifestation

that you are making progress 

Mind your own business

These days people are so too much focused on what other people are doing, in their business per say soap opera life neglecting their own.

Its ok to be concerned however we need to stop looking at the other person saying, "I don't like what you are doing" for we are messing up our own vibrations. We are not
a vibrational match to our dream by blaming the other person for
not having or doing what we want.  And usually the other person is doing
the same thing.

Neither person is focused on what they want. Both are messing up
their vibrations by worrying about what the other one wants and both are blaming each
other.

The truth is that you cannot do anything about what the other
person is doing, but you can clean up your vibration and when you
do, the universe will yield to you in ways that you right now
cannot even imagine. The universe will deliver the ESSENCE of what
you want. Maybe not in the way you expected, but if you know the
ESSENCE of what you want (how you want to feel and what you want to
experience after you have it) the universe will deliver that
because that is what you really want.

You don't have to let go of your dream but you do have to identify
the ESSENCE of the dream and hold to that. In other words, when you
think about what you want and why you want it, it is easier for you
to offer that single pure vibration than when you try to identify
who is going to bring it, how it is going to come, when it is going
to come, where it is going to come, etc.

When you ask those questions you split your vibration. You
don't get what you want and then you blame the other person.
When you get to the heart of why you want something and get in
vibrational alignment with that, you will always attract the ESSENCE
of what you want.

Today will bring you a new awareness, a lesson or a manifestation
that you are making progress

What if you and your partner want 2 different things

A question I was asked the other day is, "What if others want something
different than what I want and I am involved with them. How does the
universe decide which person gets what they want?"

My answer is when you have a vision of something and it feels like
other people are shooting it down or they don't want what you want,
it is not their shooting it down or what they want that is
threatening your manifestation. The problem is that you are letting
their vision of your vision disconnect you from your vision.

In other words, you see them as powerful players or as hindering
players and you are focused on their hindrance and in doing so you
are not in alignment with your vision.  Then the pain you feel is
not because they are hindering your vision - the pain you are
feeling is because you are out of alignment with YOUR vision.

The discomfort you are experiencing is because you are invested in
the outcome of your vision.  You want it to come to you in the
exact way you envision it. Anytime you pick a particular source,
person or situation and assign it the task that it will be the
vortex by which your dream will be fulfilled, you severely limit
yourself.

Instead, all you have to do is hold to your dream with an attitude
of appreciation and the universe will satisfy that dream in many
more ways than you can imagine. You have so much more potential for
your dreams to be satisfied than through that one source. And yet
you use your squabble over that as your reason for not being in
alignment with your dreams.  So you are depriving yourself of the
dream coming through that avenue or any other avenue. And all of
your frustration and your anger continues to grow because you feel
powerless. You are saying, "I want something I feel I can't have
and the reason I feel I can't have it is because of what you're
doing".

You need to understand that the universe sees you uniquely and
separately and will answer your every question, your every desire
and your every dream, but you have to stop making excuses and
blaming others for why it cannot be fulfilled.

Today will bring you a new awareness, a lesson or a manifestation
that you are making progress

Victim level of awareness

When I talk to some of the people I know whom live a troubled not so good life 
usually he or she is living at the victim level of awareness.

Their "story" is usually how they are being victimized by their
partners, employees, the government, etc.  Until they
move out of the victim level, it is impossible to change their life.
They must work on them first.

The bottom line is if your internal story is
one of victimhood, you will suffer. It is very simple.  And if you
are quite certain that you are not telling yourself a story of
victimization, and yet you continue to suffer, then I suggest you
are lying to yourself. You are telling yourself some variation of a
story of how you have been wronged. Whether it is a story of God,
your parents, your current or former husband, wife, girlfriend,
boyfriend, the government or circumstances that have wronged you,
it is all a story about being a victim.

Even the most violent aggressors, when the superficial layer of
aggression is cracked, have a story of having been wronged.
Striking out in anger against individuals, groups or countries
always involves a story of victimization.

Seeing how your victim story plays out in your life is an important
step to realizing true freedom. When you really see that your
victim story has to be recreated each time it plays out, you
realize you are perpetuating it.  Playing it over and over in your
mind takes energy, attention, belief, emotion and some kind of
masochistic pleasure in the pain. Yes, it is shocking! To see this
operating in you can be quite disturbing.

To stop being a victim doesn't mean to trivialize the horror in
your life, to deny it, gloss over it or repress it. However, it does
mean you don't have to justify, wail, moan, complain or seek
revenge. You just leave it alone. It does not serve you in any way.

Are you willing to let your stories of victimization go? Are you
willing to let all those horrible aggressors go unpunished? At a
certain point you have to be willing to call it off. Are you
willing to end it?  You are free to suffer and you are free to stop
suffering. No one can end it but you. That is where your true
freedom lies.  When you consciously choose to let suffering go you
are free. The bondage of victimization is thinking you do not have a
choice. You can choose to be free or you can choose to continue to
suffer. It's up to you.

Today will bring you a new awareness, a lesson or a manifestation
that you are making progress

Freedom....

What you really want most in life is freedom - freedom from
resistance. However, you will never find that freedom by trying to
control the behaviour of others. You will only find it when the
behavior of others becomes a non-issue because you are able to
focus your mind in ways that allow you to be in alignment, in the
flow and this gives you that feeling of well being.

The feeling of making others come into agreement with you in order
to get what you want will render you powerless every single time.
Even people who want to agree won't agree with if you are worrying
about them agreeing.  Instead, LET IT GO! Say to the universe, "You
know what I want. Give it to me in the path of least resistance.
Give it to me in whatever way is appropriate." and then watch how
many vortexes open for you.

Everything you want can come to you and you don't need to demand
the cooperation of others. When you come into alignment with what
you want the cooperative universe yields it to you endlessly and
other uncooperative people become irrelevant to your creation. You
can have everything you want if you don't make what other people
want seem like it is in opposition to what you want. If you don't
make it a big factor in your vibration the universe will find a way
through the path of least resistance to bring it to you.

Watch out for the non-essential things that you are trying to
control. When you clean up your vibration you can see that not only
can you have everything you want, but everyone else can have
everything they want without stepping on your creative toes at all.
You don't get in each other's way unless you fixate on something
you don't want them to want and use that as an excuse to mess up
your vibration. The universe has the ability to give everyone
what they want without anyone getting in each other's way.

Today will bring you a new awareness, a lesson or a manifestation
that you are making progress